How can I effortlessly improve myself in lots of little ways?

Answer: Set 30 implementation intentions and implement them!

An implementation intention looks like this:

If………………………………………….then I will…………………………

Some examples from Gollwitzer’s research studies:

If I am riding the bus home from work, then I will eat an apple. (Intended goal is to increase fruit intake.)

If I am watching television and want a snack, then I will reach for the fruit bowl and take an apple. (Intended goal is to reduce unhealthy snacking while watching TV.)

If, while doing this task, a distraction arises, then I will ignore it. (Intended goal is to concentrate hard on a boring task.)

My current 30 implementation intentions:

  1. If I am about to go upstairs, then I will run up the stairs. (Intended goal: to increase my incidental exercise.)
  2. If I am outside jogging, then I will apply my daughter’s two jogging tips. (Intended goal: to be able to jog without hurting my hip.)
  3. If I am walking down the hill,  then I will mindfully study the city skyline for signs novelty and difference. (Intended goal: to be more mindful of my beautiful environment.)
  4. If I eat, then I will mindfully savor the taste of what I am eating. (Intended goal: to savor my food and not mindlessly bolt it down  so fast.)
  5. If my husband gets out of bed in the morning, then I will note the time and make sure I get up no more than 10 minutes later. (Intended goal: to get up earlier than I do.)
  6. If I catch myself wallowing in morbid thoughts, then I will count backwards in 7’s from 102. (Intended goal: to tip myself out of negative, unproductive thinking.)
  7. If I am wanting to concentrate hard on my work and I catch myself wanting to get up and take a break, then I will make myself work at least another 5 minutes before stopping. (Intended goal: to build up my “concentration muscle”.)
  8. If I catch myself automatically getting up from my work, then I will make myself sit down again and work another 5 minutes before I can stop. (Intended goal: to strengthen my “concentration muscle” and to stay more in charge of my decisions.)
  9. If I think of a good idea but am not near my computer, then I will write the good idea down on my hand. (Intended goal: to capture my good ideas and not forget them.)
  10. If I have a shower, then I will spend a couple of minutes trying to recall what I’ve been recently reading or watching. (Intended goal: to consolidate my long-term memories.)
  11. If I am about to play the Stroop game on Posit Science, then I will mentally rehearse focusing just on the number of numbers rather than the numbers themselves. (Intended goal: to strengthen my impulse control.)
  12. If I am playing the n-back game and I make some errors, then I will calm down and re-focus on the new stimuli coming in. (Intended goal: to improve my ability to recover from failure.)
  13. If I am about to meditate, then I will spend a minute mentally rehearsing doing all the right things to create a good meditation session.( Intended goal: to improve my meditation success.)
  14. If I am meditating and my thoughts wander from focusing on my breath, then I will calmly bring my thoughts back to the breath. (Intended goal: to improve my self-control.)
  15. If I catch myself biting my fingernails, then I will stop. (Intended goal: to stop biting my fingernails.)
  16. If I go to get something to eat during the day, then I will first eat a small amount of vegetable before eating anything else. (Intended goal: to eat more vegetables during the day.)
  17. If it’s Friday, then I will water the house plants. (Intended goal: to keep plants alive.)
  18. If an email comes in requiring a reply, then I will reply to it before going to bed. (Intended goal: to be courteous and reply to emails promptly.)
  19. If I have trouble going to sleep, then I will recall all the happy things that happened to me during the day. (Intended goal: to replace anxiety with a happy frame of mind to help me sleep.)
  20. If I am doing my stretching exercises, then I will mindfully focus on my muscles stretching. (Intended goal: to get more out of the stretching exercises by concentrating on what I’m doing.)
  21. If I come across a fascinating fact, then I will note it down and add it to my fascinating fact file. (Intended goal: to build up my repertoire of fascinating facts.)
  22. If I come across some good material for my website but am not sure what to do with it, then I will add it to my “still to be processed” file. (Intended goal: to file good stuff away safely so I don’t forget it.)
  23. If a friend or one of my children comes over, then I will greet them heartily. (Intended goal: to train myself to greet people heartily.)
  24. If I make a promise to someone, then I will write that promise down on my checklist. (Intended goal: to keep all promises I make.)
  25. If I see a small mess I’ve made, then I will clean it up. (Intended goal: to be more orderly.)
  26. If I am cleaning my teeth, then I will then apply my skin cancer cream afterwards. (Intended goal: to remember to apply my cream twice a day.)
  27. If I finish reading an article or chapter of book, then I will spend a couple of minutes trying to recall what I’ve just read. (Intended goal: to remember and think about what I read, rather than to just read mindlessly.)
  28. If I am reading something, then I will note down practical ways to apply ideas I’ve read. (Intended goal: to read purposefully and extract practical value from what I read.)
  29. If I hit a serve off the end while playing ping pong, then I will serve more conservatively for the rest of the game. (intended goal: to control my mindless recklessness.)
  30. If I am about to phone up or see a friend,  then I will spend a couple of minutes thinking about what my friend has been up to recently. (Intended goal: to practise being other-person focused.)

How can I get myself to do what I want to do?

Answer: Make vivid, concrete plans that specify when and where, how you’re going to do what you want to  do.

The power of making a vivid implementation plan has been confirmed over and over in research by Peter Gollwitzer and his colleagues since the 1990s. (Click here for links to all the research papers.)

Carol Dweck, in her book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, sums up how to make a vivid, concrete intention plan:

What works is making a vivid, concrete plan: “Tomorrow during my break, I’ll get a cup of tea, close the door to my office, and call the graduate school.” Or, in another case,: “On Wednesday morning, right after I get up and brush my teeth, I’ll sit at my desk and start writng my report.” Or: “Tonight, right after the dinner dishes are done, I’ll sit down with my wife in the living room and have that discussion. I’ll say to her, ‘Dear, I’d like to talk about something that I think will make us happier.’ ”

Think of something you need to do, something you want to learn, or a problem you have to confront. What is it? Now make a concrete plan.

when will you follow thorugh on your plan? Where will you do it? How will you do it? Think about it in vivid detail.

These concrete plans–plans you can visualize–about when, where, and how you are going to do something lead to really high levels of follow-through, which, of course, ups the chances of success. (p 228)